How To Avoid Painful Sex
Question. I am 23 years old and getting married in two months. We plan to have sex on our wedding night. What positions should I try so that it is least painful? If I start masturbating, will it loosen up the vagina and ease the pain?
Answer. Great idea, if you have the energy after the long prayers, ceremonies and hand shakes! Good luck! Why not follow the advice of the sage Vatsayana (of Kama Sutra fame) and wait a few days? It hurts less if the hymen split during foreplay (not with intercourse). For the pain, you can apply a tiny amount of xylocaine gel 2% in and around the vaginal opening, wait for 15 minutes and wash it off. You should feel no pain for an hour or two. I strongly advise pre-marital counselling for both of you.
What is the purpose of a flavoured condom?
Question. What is the purpose of a flavoured condom? How is it used?
Answer. Flavoured condoms are worn by men during oral sex, meant for the partner’s satisfaction.
Guy Had Sex With A Girl For Three Years But She Never Got Pregnant
Question. I am 23 years old. For three years, I was in relationship with a girl and we had sex many times without protection. I always ejaculated outside and she never got pregnant. She recently got married and was pregnant almost immediately? How did that happen? I am worried that there is a problem with my sperm count. Now I am about to get married. Please help me out. I masturbate four times a week.
Is that the problem?
Answer.You threw your sperms out (luckily, you didn’t misfire), while her husband deposited his sperms in the vagina and hit the jackpot. If you are worried, get your semen fluid examined at a pathology laboratory.
Decline in the amount of vaginal discharge
Question. I am a 25-year-old woman and for the past few months I have noticed a decline in the amount of my vaginal discharge. This restricts my husband’s penis into my vagina during intercourse and makes sex quite painful. What can I do? Please help.
Answer. If it is clear fluid then it is a lubricating fluid which occurs when a female is sexually aroused. Is he in a hurry? Insist on more foreplay so that you get your first orgasm before he penetrates you and follow it up with intercourse. You could lubricate with your or his saliva or get KY gel.
Husband depressed about wife having affair
Question. I have been married for 20 years and we had a very happy sex life. My wife was recently transferred to Gujarat. So she comes to Mumbai over weekends. For the past year, she has been avoiding me sexually, and since we have a good understanding, I asked her if she was having an affair. She denied it. But she has told me that she fantasises about a big and long penis. My penis is 6 inches long and we have long foreplay. Last week, I told her to tell me the truth or leave me forever. She said she is having an affair with a younger man and they have unprotected sex. Should I leave her? What steps should I take? I am very upset and depressed.
Answer. You will have to quietly discuss matters with her and face reality. Ultimately, you will have to make the decision. Nobody else can do it for you.
Guy wanting to go in for sex change
Question. I am going to go for a sex change but I am confused. Should I do it in Mumbai or Bangkok? What is the difference between foreign and Indian sex change doctors? Are the results the same or do they differ? Please reply.
Answer. Both places have competent surgeons. But I think that in Bangkok, such operations are done more often.