Question. My boyfriend is 20 years old and I'm 19. I don't let him have sex with me and that is why he masturbates in front of me and that too daily. Not even one day he can go without masturbation and he has been doing this for the last three to four years daily. Will this daily masturbation affect our child?

Answer. So long as your vulva does not touch his penis, it is quite safe. There is no way his masturbation will affect childbearing in the future. It is good that you are firm about what you wish at this age as it will be several years before you enter marriage.